Child Development Children and resilience Social emotional milestones


Some basic principles about understanding your child's Social Emotional Milestones

Developmental milestones are a set of functional skills or age-specific tasks that most children can do at a certain age range. Your pediatrician uses milestones to help check how your child is developing. Although each milestone has an age level, the actual age when a normally developing child reaches that milestone can very quite a bit.
   

Although each child is unique, there are predictable milestones along the way:

   

     0-3 Months

  • Infants show distress by crying and flailing their arms and legs
  • Babies show their emotions by cooing, babbling, and smiling in response to gentle voices, familiar faces, comforting and feeding.
  • Develops a smile
  • Imitates some movement
  • Enjoys playing with others

     3-6 Months

  • Enjoys social play
  • Interested in mirror image
  • Responds to other people's expressions

6-9 Months

  • Prefers primary caregiver
  • They show distress when separated from their familiar caregiver
  • They become angry when frustrated
  • May be fearful in some situations
  • Establishing predictable eating and sleeping routines

     9-12 Months

  • Gradualy learns to recognize and interpret the emotional expressions of others and react to them
  • Shy or anxious with strangers
  • Repeats sounds or gestures for attention

     1-2 Years

  • Can differentiate people and can be affectionate to those whom they know
  • Demonstrates increasing independence
  • Imitates behavior of adults and older children
  • More aware of self separate from others, they say NO to adults
  • Begin to engage in pretend play
     2-3 Years
  • Can take turns in games
  • Has a vague notion of time, but strugles with meaning of today, tomorrow and yesterday
  • Their attention span is short
  • Expresses affection openly
  • Objects to major changes in routine
     3-4 Years
  • Peers are very important to children
  • Can interpret other people's emotions correctly
  • Engages in Imaginary play
  • More Independent
  • Views self as a whole person

      4-5 Years

  • Wants to please friends

  • Aware of gender

  • Able to distinguish fantasy from reality


Sources of information
www..cdc.gov/actearly
 www.birth23.org

 

 

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